I work with men both within my church and outside as a mentor. I believe that in this role I must live my life in such a way that not only does my life reflect the qualifications that are listed in 1 Timothy and Titus but also shows that I am willing to be open with men that I work with. I must be open and honest and not come across that I am an individual who has their life together and doesn't struggle with anything. I must be willing to share my struggles and how Christ rescued and restored me through His grace, mercy and love.
My life must be an example that I rely on God and depend on Him to go through life and deal with the things that come my way. The men must be able to see that they are not in this battle alone and if they don't see that with me then it won't take them long to see that I am living a lie. If I trult believe that Jesus Christ is the answer to my problems then I must make sure that other's see that in my life.